“Having [immediate cessation of
self-injurious behavior] as a primary goal may well be counter-productive. Techniques based on the premise that
self-injury should not be reinforced by attention, or on the use of sanctions
such as withdrawal of treatment, will almost certainly cause greater distress.”
(Solomon, Farrand, 1996)
The Therapist
Therapists need
to check-in with themselves before working with clients who self-injure; If the
therapist has a strong desire for a client to cease self-injury, or wishes to
have a zero-tolerance demand on their client, they should ask themselves if
this is based on what is best for their client or because they are not
comfortable with the idea of a person self-injuring. As a therapist, if you find yourself repulsed
by self-injury it would be best practice for your client and yourself to make a
referral to someone more practiced and comfortable with those who self-injure.
Basic Approach
The first tenet
of an effective therapist/client relationship is to take a non-judgmental
approach. Keep in mind that wounds and
blood may be everyday occurrences to someone who self-injures. Also keep in mind that it is a very private
and intimate activity and your client may never choose to show you their wounds
or scars.
Treating
self-injury without addressing the underlying causes may be a self-defeating
exercise and be setting the person who self-injures up for failure. Therefore, therapists must complete a
thorough assessment and build a strong therapeutic alliance as a foundation prior
to considering treatment options. Other
things to keep in mind are;
- Most people who self-injure are of above average
intelligence and should be engaged with a respectful, collaborative
approach. They will ferret out any
duplicity or condescension pretty quickly
- Self-injury is a powerful coping strategy and one that may
be a large part of a person’s life or identity – to change an ego state
that has relied on self-injury involves a great deal of work by the client
and that work should be respected
- Therapists must understand what role self-injury plays in
a person’s life. For example; If
the individual uses self-injury to drive away suicidal thoughts or urges,
taking that away from them may be a dangerous proposition
- Self-injury can have a strong biochemical addictive quality, so for many people who seek to stop, a therapist should approach it as they would any other addiction
Foundations of Care
The first goal of
therapy should be to help the client stabilize their life – this may require
short-term medications such as SSRIs as suggested by Favazza. If their self-injury is out of control, the
need it is meeting should be explored and alternatives taught and practiced.
Many who
self-injure were never taught to self-regulate their emotional states as
children, so we often times need to back up the therapeutic bus in order to
teach and have them practice these skills before moving forward in therapy.
Breathing,
relaxation, and mindfulness can aid a client to regulate their emotions
and physical sensations, but care should be taken to tailor the techniques to
the individual; For some, mindfulness techniques that require them to
“focus-in” can have the opposite affect than intended – by focusing on what
they are feeling may increase their anxiety and tension. For these individuals, “focus-out”
mindfulness may help them move away from the distressing feelings that they use
self-injury to alleviate.
The best practice
in a treatment plan for an individual who self-injures would include a team comprised
of professionals the client trusts and multimodal approaches (Favazza, 1998);
- The client should have access to non-judgmental and
compassionate medical care for their wounds that honours their dignity and
autonomy (Dallam, 1997). This may require the therapist to
educate medical practitioners involved in their client’s care [The Bill of Rights for Those Who Self Harm is a good place to start]
- Any hospitalization should be brief and reserved for
clients who are at-risk for suicide or severe self-injury - (Dallam, 1997) – because hospitals
are artificially safe environments and the client will be best served to
learn alternative coping strategies in real life situations
- The client should be under the care of a psychiatrist who
can monitor any stabilizing medications, their side-effects, and the
client's preferences
- Specific therapeutic approaches should be tailored to
address the client’s underlying issues [See below]
- Group therapy and support groups are extremely helpful for
someone recovering from self-injury.
If no such group is available, there are online resources where
individuals can be part of a support network, anonymously if they choose [Two such online resources are Self Injury Friends, and Pandora's Project. YouTube has a number of channels by individuals offering help for self-injury recovery as well, Self Harm Support has hundreds of videos]
- The therapist should monitor any suicidal ideation frequently. I would recommend setting up a SUDs scale so that the client can check in each session on how they are feeling. Best practice on this is to have the client detail what each number means – [One individual who uses an SUDs scale states that “5” is her safe zone, for her “5” means; “I don’t want to live, but I’m not going to do anything about it”]
Specific Therapy
Depending on the
underlying contributing factors, a number of therapeutic approaches can be
employed;
Borderline Personality Disorder - Dialectical Behaviour Therapy combined
with interpersonal group therapy has shown a high efficacy. Therapists who are considering employing DBT
should understand that it takes a strong commitment to the process and often the
therapist has to be available to their
clients outside of normal office hours
Posttraumatic Stress or Complex
Posttraumatic Stress – Depending on
the ability of the client to tolerate the distress of a
“trauma-narrative, Rational-Emotive Therapy or Trauma-Focused Cognitive
Behaviour Therapy are two options. Eye
Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing is another, however the intensity of
“reliving” traumatic events have proven too much for some individuals and have
led to an increase in self-injurious behaviour due to the emergence of
repressed memories, flashbacks, or nightmares. Let your client be your guide.
Hypnosis and Relaxation
Therapies used in conjunction with other therapies have shown solid results
in reducing the distress and tension that can trigger self-injury.
In the working
stage of treatment, there are a myriad of tools found in Cognitive Behaviour Therapy that can be tailored to fit any client.
My own approach
is rooted in Multimodal Therapy –
First addressing the seven modalities that make up who we are; Behaviour;
Affect; Sensory; Imagery; Cognitions; Interpersonal Relationships; and Drugs
& Biology – then being able to draw on any other therapeutic technique that
best fits my client. As always, when
conducting a comprehensive assessment, I look for the client’s “SNAP” –
Strengths, Needs, Abilities, and Preferences.
It is their life, their disorder, and their journey toward healing, so I
believe that we should build on their strengths, meet their needs, never
over-burden their abilities, and always honour their preferences.
I invite comment
on this and all the articles in the Self-Injury series, especially from those
who self-injure or have recovered from it.
I am always willing and eager to learn …
Next up: Self-Injury – Tips from the Experts
Previous articles in the Self-Injury series;
- Introduction
- Mythbusting
- In History & Nature
- Spectrum of Function
- Biochemistry
- Addiction
- Contributing Factors
Aaron D. McClelland, RPCc – www.interiorcounselling.com/aaron/
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